What is the brutal truth about relationship ??

OCTOBER 12, 2018 / ANKITJNV / 

# Relationship with your LOVE:

• Sexual desire fades with time.
• Men fall in love slower, and out of Love slower but women are exactly the opposite of it.
• The more you fall in love the more you will be hurt.
• No wonder how high you are in Love now, that will be fade out.
• You can never share your top secrets with your partner. (Consequence will be pathetic)
• Attraction reduces day by day.
• The person you love the most will never understand the depth of it.
• No matter how much you are in love with your partner, death with will apart you.
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# Relationship with FRIENDS:

• If they grow more you will feel disappointed (Depends: how you are dealing with it)
• Their costly branded dress makes you feel jealous.
• Rich lifestyle of your friend makes you feel poor.
• Only 1% of your total friends will really be happy with your success.
• Your top secrets will be discussed as casual ones if the friendship is poor.
• Your weak moments will be presented dramatically in front of other friends.
• The friend you consider as your closest one might be so selfish when your difficult time comes.
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# Relationship with PARENTS:

• We feel their suggestions are senseless.
• No matter how much they are struggling for us, we don’t value it. (Up to a certain age)
• Parents still consider us as kids, when we already aged 25.
• Parents think their choice for our lives is much better than ours.
• We used to hate the foods prepare at home but once we stay out, we miss the home foods so badly.
• We don’t want to be like Sharma ji or Gupta ji’s son or daughter.
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# Relationship with RELATIVES:

• Always ready to put you and children down.
• They are happy to see your status lower than them.
• If you start doing something new, they won’t leave a single negative point to mention to demotivate you.
• A very few relatives will help you in your crisis.
• There is always a rival comparison in between you and them.
• Your daughter’s marriage is a big headache for them.
• Now, Sharma ji and Gupta ji please stay out of our lives.
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After all the negativities, we still need relationships to exist, learn, and experience in this World.

Thanks for reading 

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What are the best romantic relationship tips?

OCTOBER 9, 2018 / ANKITJNV / 

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2. Express your Love.
3. Kiss her on forehead. Girls feel adorable when a guy kisses them on forehead.
4. If she’s crying, hold her. Once she’s done, hug her tightly, like it’s the last time you’re hugging her.
5. Nick names are special. Have pet/nick name for your love.
6. Look into each other’s eyes when you speak.
7. Look into each other’s eyes when you don’t speak.
8. One of the most romantic times are in kitchen when she is cooking for you. Even if you cannot help, at least be around.
9. Sleep with her naked.
10. Cuddle with her naked.
11. Fuck him/her like it’s your last day on earth. Kiss & cuddle thereafter, like you’re gonna stay together, forever.
12. When in doubt, always KISS.
13. Be honest.
14. Communicate.
15. All relationships go through hell, but real ones get through it and grow through it.

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What’s the most motivating one-liner ever? Have you read ?

OCTOBER 5, 2018 / ANKITJNV / 

So, here I have some pics about motivation…

(Hope you like them..)

Some are from Rabindranath Tagore, but most of them are random, with the personalities names given below..

Let’s start ——————

“You can’t dream yourself into a character; You must hammer & forge yourself

into one.”

“Sweat the Details, …”

“Life is a stage & you only get one chance; Make it a good one.”

“The secret of success is concealed in love with your work.”

“Shoot for the Moon, even if you miss, you’ll land somewhere amongst the stars.”

“A ship is port is safe. But that’s not what ships are built for.”

“Your future is created by what you do TODAY, not TOMORROW.”

“A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor.”

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What is one of your favorite beautiful/tragic/epic stories of love in mythology, legend, folklore, or history?

OCTOBER 4, 2018 / ANKITJNV / 

Love is eternal. Love is also ancient. There has been so much talk about love in all forms of art. Folklore too, has love as one of its main elements. There are many folklore legends and myths that revolves around love and lovers. These legends and stories may be known to you, or they may be not.

The following list will introduce you to some famous romantic stories from folklore around the world.

#1 The Legend of Butterfly Lovers (Chinese)

Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai’s love story is one of the most famous folktale in the Chinese culture. In the eastern Zin Dynasty, Zhu is the only daughter of a wealthy merchant. While women were traditionally discouraged from studying scriptures or attending school, Zhu’s father allows her to study. Donning a disguise of a man, she attends school in Hangzhou. There she meets Liang Shanbo. They have an instant connection and become brothers.

Wile Zhu hides her true identity, she starts developing feeling for her fellow schoolmate. But this love is not yet to be fulfilled. Her father sends her a letter, urging her to return home. But Zhu has already given her heart to Liang. When Liang travels with his “sworn brother” to accompany Zhu safely home, she drops several hints indicating her true identity. Yet Liang is unaware.

Later when Liang comes to know of the truth, it is too late. While they both finally confess their feeling, their union become impossible. Zhu’s family has already given her hand in marriage to some other man. Upon hearing this, Liang becomes severely ill and dies. When Zhu finally gets married, the wind above Liang’s grave forbids the bridal procession to continue. Zhu, in despair, goes to the grave and cries bitterly. The grave opens and suddenly they are joined together. Morphing into butterflies, they fly together, never to be separated again. Hence they are known as the “Butterfly Lovers”. Tell me you aren’t fascinated!

#2 The Cowherd and The Weaver Girl (Chinese)

The Cowherd and The Weaver Girl is a love story which is out of this world. Quite literally. Zhinu, the weaver girl falls in love with Niulang, the Cowherd. Also, their love is not fated to survive. While Zhinu is considered the planet Vega, Niulang symbolizes the star Altair. Separated by the Milky Way, which is the Silver river, they can only meet once a year. It is believed that when the flock of magpies makes a bridge on the 7th lunar day of the 7th month in Chinese calendar, these lover will unite for a night.

Qixi festival in China celebrates the love story of these lovers. This also accounts for Chinese Valentine’s Day. The story is well known in Chinese folklore, as well as in many cultures of neighboring countries, though with a different version of the same story..

#3 The Legend of Lady Meng Jiang (Chinese)

Lady Meng Jiang’s devotion and love for her husband has been celebrated in Chinese folklore. The versions of folktale set in Qin dynsaty talks about Lady Jiang’s husband who was forced to serve the kingdom. He was forced to work as a corvee laborer to make the Great Wall Of China.

Without bidding farewell to his wife, her husband left. Meng Jiang traveled to bring clothes for her husband for winter. Sadly, upon reaching, she came o know that he had died. Hearing that, she wept so furiously that her anguish caused The Great Wall to collapse. Her love for her husband and her sorrow upon his death is widely known and remembered. Even though the folktale has many versions, they all point towards one thing: the devotional love of Lady Meng Jiang.

#4 The Love Story of Heer-Ranjha (Indian)

If you are interested in Indian folklore and folktales, you must have heard of Heer-Ranjha. The tragic couple is hailed as the epitome of love and devotion. The poem alluding to this pair was written by Waris Shah and is widely known and praised. The pair’s love story depicts the way lovers are ostracized. Both Heer and Ranjha never gets married due to various problems and obstructions.

Heer and Ranjha are believed to be real people in some versions of the poem. Nevertheless, it is believed that they are buried in Heer’s hometown Junga. Couples smitten in love often visit their mausoleum to pray for a successful union.

#5 The Legend of Mirza-Sahiban (Indian)

Mirza and Sahiban’s love story is another Indian legend. They are quite popular in Indian folklore as well. Mirza and Sahiban cannot unite as lovers due to familial resistance. Mirza’s mother and Sahiban’s father are “milk sibling”, meaning that they were breastfeed from same woman. This makes them “cousins”. But when Mirza finally comes to live with his uncle, he fell for Sahiban.

Upon receiving same affections, they both starts meeting secretly. However, their romantic rendezvous doesn’t last long and they are caught by Sahiban’s family. Mirza is forced to leave and Sahiban is chosen to marry another man. When Mirza finally take Sahiban with him and they elope. The end, however, is painful. Mirza and Sahiban has a tragic end with both of their death. If you are interested to read further about them, you should read the poem. It is not only a great love story, but also a fine work of literature.

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HOW DO YOU STAY HAPPY EVERY DAY ?

OCTOBER 3, 2018 / ANKITJNV

Start your day with a workout and sweat as much as you can.

1. Rule no. 1 – Be selfish and do things that you want to. (Make sure they don’t affect your health). Rule no. 2- Follow rule no.1 
2. Keep people around you happy and I promise, you will feel happy internally and people around you will keep you happy in return. Life is always “Give and take”.
3. Watch comedy movies / videos atleast once in 3 days. It keeps your mood light.
4. Have short term goals and plan everyday to achieve them.
5. Laugh at your problems and warn them by finding solutions.
6. Plan and travel once in a month slightly outside the city. This will make you excited. I wouldn’t suggest you to ride a bike, instead share a drive or use public transport.
7. Research things that excites you.

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7 Everyday habits of highly productive people .Do You Have ???

To be successful, cultivate the right habits to maximize your productivity and help you achieve great things. Getting in the routine of doing certain things like visualizing success and learning from your mistakes can help you be more productive both in the short and long-run.

Some of the most successful people today do certain things everyday to help them reach peak productivity — and they are simpler than you think. For starters, try losing your laptop and instead go the old fashioned route and take out a pen and paper for a little bit of note-taking. Research shows that physically writing things down can help boost memory and performance. Another thing is to rid yourself of any distractions. And that doesn’t mean turning your phone on silent. Instead, put your phone in a completely separate room so you don’t even tempt yourself of the distraction.

To learn more, here are seven everyday habits of highly productive people.

1. Write things down

Lose the laptop, and instead go the old-fashioned route and get out a pen and paper. According to an earlier study, actually writing things down not only boosts memory but your ability to better comprehend and understand concepts.

2. Take vacation time

A vacation is the perfect opportunity to hit reset. While it might not feel like you have the time in your schedule to disconnect from work for a few days, you might want to make time. According to research, vacations can boost productivity, creativity and your health.

One earlier study found that people who take 11 or more vacation days a year are more likely to receive a bonus at work than people who take 10 days or fewer. Vacations can improve creativity by getting people out of their normal day-to-day activities and it can also reduce stress levels, which ultimately help improve a person’s health.

3. Learn from mistakes

Productive people don’t beat themselves up after making a mistake. Instead, they accept it, learn from it and prevent themselves from repeating it in the future.

A 2011 study, which observed a group of students and doctors to understand their response to mistakes, discovered that there are typically two types of responses people have after making mistakes: some people see it as a “wake up call” and learn from them, while others shut down and avoid thinking about the mistakes altogether.

In the end, people who dealt with their mistakes head-on were seen to improve their overall work performance and avoid making the same mistake in the future.

4. Avoid distractions

There’s no doubt that today’s technology, like smartphones and social media, can cause major distractions. In fact, the mere sight of your smartphone is proven to be a distraction — whether it’s on or off, according to a recent study by the University of Texas. Productive people are able to disconnect from unnecessary technology in order to focus on tasks at-hand.

2. Take vacation time

A vacation is the perfect opportunity to hit reset. While it might not feel like you have the time in your schedule to disconnect from work for a few days, you might want to make time. According to research, vacations can boost productivity, creativity and your health.

Overall, the study found that people who had their phones in a separate room while they completed their work were significantly more productive than people who had their phones sitting on the desks where they were working.

5. Stop striving for “perfection”

The idea of “perfection” is different to everyone, and it’s often one of the hardest things to achieve. Not only that but it comes with risk too. People constantly feel like they aren’t good or worthy enough of certain things when they are striving to be perfect, and this can take a toll on a person’s confidence and well-being.

Brene Brown, a research professor at the University of Houston and famous TED speaker, has spent over 10 years of her career studying vulnerability, shame, authenticity and courage and ultimately discovered the one thing that really gets in people’s way: perfection. “Perfectionism is not the same thing as striving to be our best. Perfectionism is not about healthy achievement and growth; it’s a shield,” she wrote in a CNN article. “It’s the thing that’s really preventing us from being seen and taking flight.” Instead of having some idea of perfection in your head, focus on trying to be your best self. You can’t do everything.

According to Brown, ask yourself this: “What’s the greater risk? Letting go of what people think — or letting go of how I feel, what I believe and who I am?”

6. Use the 80/20 rule

The 80/20 rule dates back to 1906 when economist Vilfredo Pareto used it to describe wealth distribution in his home country, Italy, saying that 80 percent of the country’s wealth was owned by 20 percent of the people. Today, the 80/20 rule is used to describe more than just wealth — in fact, some of the most productive people apply it to their professional lives too.

According to research, the 80/20 rule can be extremely helpful in reaching goals or crossing off things on your to-do lists. To use the 80/20 rule in helping you achieve more, focus on the most important tasks that will help you the most to grow and generate the most significant results to add value to your life.

7. Use visualization

If you want to be successful, picture yourself that way. A number of studies have proven that this type of “visualization” can be incredibly helpful in achieving goals. In fact, one study observed a group of people who went to the gym and a group of people who visualized themselves going to the gym.

In the end, the people who actually went to the gym gained 30 percent leaner muscles, however, the people who simply performed mental exercises gained 13.5 percent leaner muscles. If people combine visualization with the actual act of doing something, the researchers concluded that they would be even more successful than simple doing one or the other.

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Bitcoin Is About To Move--But In Which Direction?

Market timing is the most difficult thing of all. It’s the very skill that you need to have to make a fortune in the markets and funnily enough it is technically impossible to have.

This is by way of apology for the market timing prediction I’m about to make.

[Ed note: Investing in crypto coins or tokens is highly speculative and the market is largely unregulated. Anyone considering it should be prepared to lose their entire investment.]

Bitcoin is about to move and move definitively. Guessing the direction is another challenge but timing is more important than direction.

That might not sound intuitive, but if you know something is going to reprice imminently, then when it begins to do that, you can jump on the direction, knowing the direction of travel will be significant. Make or break times in markets do arrive and bitcoin is at such juncture.


No chart would be complete without some pseudo-science, so what you see above is the end of a reprice series where the market has struggled to agree on a price for bitcoin. This has resulted in a series of rallies and dips that have developed into a tightening range. Once the range has shrunk to nearly nothing the price of the asset enters a new phase of discovery.

In other words, once the price is agreed the market is then ready to go off on another valuation ‘wild goose chase.’ A new chapter begins.

With the current setup the chart is telling us we are about to leave the aftermath of the bitcoin crash and enter such a new phase.

The shape of the bitcoin chart is not a novelty. The history of boom and bust in markets is full of similar charts.

The Nasdaq is a convenient example. This is the dotcom bubble:

The big money is made getting out at the top of a bubble and back in at the bottom. As such, watching for a market bottom is at least half of the game in investing. It is the game most successful investors prefer to play, rather than picking tops. Tops can be very hard to judge and are vaporous, disappearing sometimes in moments. Bottoms like the one we may be experiencing in bitcoin give plenty of time for consideration.

But nothing says bitcoin won’t slump from this pivot point. I’d like it to as I’m still waiting for an opportunity for some cheap coins, but I can wait all I like, the market obliges no one.

What the market is telling us via the chart is that this post-crash market series is coming to an end pretty soon.

You might say, who can say that bitcoin will not simply bob along, but that is the least likely outcome.

$6,000 has been a very solid bottom for bitcoin and shows a resilience I believe bitcoin will not lose. The biggest risk for bitcoin is that it goes to $0 not $2,500; the real risk being that it is just the phantom asset the old school believe it is. If you don’t believe this, and I do not, then bitcoin is very cheap.

The chart says the next chapter in the bitcoin story is close. I think it’s a final capitulation, but my reasoning is clouded by wanting that outcome. Either way the move is going to be a big one with lots of opportunity to profit.

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5 Ways To Radically Improve Your Life Right Now

When you are in a rut or a bad mood, have you ever asked yourself, "If I drop everything right now, what can I do at this very moment that will make me feel better?" If you feel like you are not in control of your life or you are simply stressed and in a bad mood, here are five ways you can improve your quality of life right this second:

Get Organized

Don't have your calendar updated? Have you not taken the time to write a to-do list, map out your projects, social events and important dates such as birthdays, anniversaries, etc.? Have you cleaned your desk? Perhaps your home? Do something that helps organize your life, because that will often help quiet your mind and will improve your mood.

Shower And Get Dressed

No matter what has happened in your day, or even if your day has not started yet, you will always feel better after a shower, and will feel better about yourself if you get dressed in proper clothes. Whatever time of the day, if you feel yourself getting into a slump, or getting tired, think about taking a shower and getting dressed. You will feel better.

Do Some Light Cardio

Another way to quickly boost your mood is some light cardio. If you have a lot to get done, a strenuous work out will only diminish your energy, but light cardio will increase it, and will improve your mood and your focus. Try and squeeze it in whenever you can, whether at the beginning, middle or end of your day.

Stop Comparing

A quick way to upset yourself is to start comparing your professional and personal milestones to others. Theodore Roosevelt said, "Comparison is the thief of joy." Make sure and focus on yourself and building on your own progress towards your own goals. Competitive swimmers know if they look in the neighboring lanes for their competition, it will slow them down- it is just like life. So focus on yourself, you do not need to worry about anyone else.

Do Something For Yourself

And last, but certainly not least, doing something for yourself can go a long way. Self-care has a broad definition, it can mean getting eight hours of sleep, getting a work out in, having a glass of wine, going out to dinner or having a night out with friends, etc. Sometimes doing something for yourself gives you the energy and the mood booster to carry on, and will be exactly what you need. Don't underestimate it.

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